Your destiny, normally, comes after a major hardship. A hardship that is so major that your identiity is tested. Your identity shows your true self, what truly builds your character. This seems to be the situaton that most, of your past, tests were preparing you for. For example, Jesus began teaching after Satan tested his identity, in the wilderness. Also, David did not become king until he was tested many times. After he had a new identity, he fought Goliath. After, he became king. He was promised to be king over 20 years prior, but God had to change his identity first. What is built into your character, that is keeping you from your destiny? Have you been over-looking tests that has been trying to shape your identity? Unlearn.